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Oops…Late Cards (Again)

Posted by pausesandclicks on 12/17/2015
Posted in: Uncategorized. Tagged: best intentions, Christmas, Christmas cards, Christmas decorations, weekly photo challenge: oops!. 8 Comments

My plan this year was to go with “Christmas Lite.” After having moved into this house a few months ago I didn’t want to dig out all the decorations, and with plans to travel over the holiday, I didn’t feel a great need to go to great lengths to get it all done.

But then December happened.  And so did this.

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I couldn’t stop myself from bringing at least some of it out, much to my husband’s relief.  At one point he casually mentioned that perhaps there were two people in the house (yes, we consider our Lab to be a person) who still wanted it to look like Christmas, and usually relied on someone else (that would be me), to make it happen.

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How could I resist?!

Another tradition that couldn’t go by the wayside was my traditional gift to family and neighbors of homemade english toffee (affectionately known as Christmas Crack) and spiced pretzels, tucked into a gift bag with a kitchen towel and presented with lots of tissue paper, curling ribbon, hand-crafted gift tags and an ornament.  This year I tried my hand at sea salt caramels to add to those bags.

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So, Oops!….although I should have had plenty of time to get it all done, our Christmas cards will end up being New Year’s cards this year….no surprise to anyone who knows me well. Hmmm….perhaps if I hadn’t taught myself how to make caramel this month, on a whim, things would have turned out differently. But they didn’t, and although I always have the best of intentions I can count on one hand the amount of years I’ve ever mailed them in December.

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You’d think I’d just buy New Year’s cards to begin with.

 

 

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These Eyes are Watching

Posted by pausesandclicks on 12/10/2015
Posted in: Uncategorized. Tagged: cross county trail in virginia, stark beauty, weekly photo challenge: eye spy, winter woods. 3 Comments

Since the leaves began falling I’ve been relishing my long walks in the woods.

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I find them to be even more beautiful in winter’s starkness than I do when they’re cloaked in summer’s green finery. Scenes become stark line drawings as opposed to vivid impressionist paintings. Rain, fog, sunlight….each weather condition lends it’s own personality to familiar paths.  In the summer it all tends to look the same.  In winter each day reveals new facets.

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It’s been unseasonably warm this December but on those days when the temperature has dropped a bit and the wind is blowing I can hear winter moving through the tops of these trees.  I’m trying to be patient but I’m anxious to watch these spaces fill up with snow.

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In the meantime, while I’m not here, looking and seeing and exploring, I trust that these eyes, which I found watching me just a few days ago, will keep their silent vigil.

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I have to admit, I walked away thinking of Ents and Bilbo Baggins and fully expected this wise old man to thank me for stopping by for a visit.

Back in March of 2012 I responded to another photo challenge involving eyes with this post about a friend and the eyes she inherited from her mother.

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Young Lives In Transition

Posted by pausesandclicks on 12/03/2015
Posted in: Uncategorized. Tagged: engagement, engagement photos, future daughter-in-law, happy couple, love, weekly photo challenge: transition, will you marry me?. 6 Comments

Four years ago, after their first date, he wrote on his FB page “Sometimes everything is perfect.”

Fast forward to November 21, 2015 and she writes “I knew the moment I saw you four years ago. And now we have forever.”

A month ago they were two young adults, finding their way in the world as young professionals.  They defined themselves as a daughter and a son, as Jeff’s sister and as Jimmy and Steven’s brother, as Conner’s aunt and Judah’s, Xander’s and Maddie’s uncle, as Alex’s girlfriend and Kayla’s boyfriend.

Now that is all eclipsed by “as an engaged couple.”

The planning has begun and their lives are now in the best kind of transition.

They traveled to our home for the Thanksgiving holiday and this proud mom, who is a photographer, but not necessarily a portrait photographer, was more than willing to attempt their engagement photos with some of our favorite DC memorials as backdrops.

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We couldn’t be happier to be adding another beautiful, intelligent and genuinely kind daughter-in-law to the two we already have in our family.  I may have only given birth to sons but I’m no longer going to be outnumbered…the score is finally even!

 

 

 

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Boundless Energy And Love, Times Three

Posted by pausesandclicks on 11/27/2015
Posted in: Uncategorized. Tagged: bison, canada, cute kids, family, weekly photo challenge: trio. 2 Comments

Once upon a time my home was filled with three little personalities who made every day a surprise (many of them including ER visits!) and infused every minute with love.

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Last weekend my husband and I visited his little sister and found the very same thing to be true in their home….lots of laughter, many tender moments, their fair share of one sibling annoying another, cuteness in abundance, and the general chaos that comes with three small children and a dog.

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We also found this trio while we were in Canada. They weren’t nearly as cuddly or as much fun as our nieces and nephew, but they were pretty awesome!

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Small Victories

Posted by pausesandclicks on 11/18/2015
Posted in: Uncategorized. Tagged: salted caramels, weekly photo challenge: victory, yardwork. 3 Comments

Big victories are few in life.  Small victories are the stuff life is made of.

Who hasn’t occasionally felt victorious after simply rolling out of bed to face a new morning when the previous day has been full of conflict and stress?  Sometimes the first foot on the floor is victory enough.

We bought our current house in 2004 and due to military assignments this is the third time we’ve moved into it.  The first time we lived here I stripped wallpaper and painted the entire inside of the home.  My husband announced orders as I was putting the finishing touches on the last room, just a year after  moving in.   I never had time to consider what needed to be done outside.  The second time around I worked full-time and yard work was still being done by our teenage sons.

This time around those sons are grown and my husband is retired.  Life has a different pace and this piece of yard in front of the house, which used to be a tangled mess of grasses, random bushes and a persistent thorny plant we called “mile a minute” weed was high on my list of being cleared.

This week I finally conquered this patch of land.

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I also conquered my first batch of salted caramels.

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Some victories are sweeter than others.  And  some victories don’t cause blisters.

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Ornate In Original Form

Posted by pausesandclicks on 11/13/2015
Posted in: art. Tagged: Giverny, Monet's garden, Paris, weekly photo challenge: ornate. 4 Comments

My own decorating style leans towards rustic but when I visit Paris I’m delighted that there’s evidence of the ornate in so many places.  Not just in the obvious venues like churches and museums but also in the curve underneath a bridge, a stairway leading to a restaurant in an alley, or a gate on a side street.

Beauty isn’t just there for tourists, it also exists for shoppers in a mall,  the pedestrian on their way to run errands, a student walking to school, or  clerks making their way to work through a crowded sea of traffic and people.

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All of it, I suspect, inspired by nature’s artistry, as seen here in Monet’s garden at Giverny.

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There’s no artist more ornate or more accomplished than our Creator.

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What We Might Take For Granted

Posted by pausesandclicks on 11/11/2015
Posted in: Military Life. Tagged: Air Force Veteran, country, freedom, Veteran's Day. 1 Comment

Today is Veterans Day in the United States, the first observation of the holiday since my husband retired after 35 years of service in our Air Force.

Last night our seven-year-old grandson, who lives half-way across the country, asked his dad if his Grandpa Lolo was a vegetarian.  Steven explained to him that although Grandpa watches what he eats, and limits his intake of red meat, he doesn’t exclude it, as a vegetarian would.  In response to that, our grandson said he meant “Is Grandpa a veterinarian?”  It was then that our son realized he had learned about Veterans Day in school, and he was asking if his Grandpa was a veteran.

When he learned that yes, his grandfather is a veteran, he asked if he could Skype him on Veterans Day to thank him for keeping our country safe.

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Yes, Judah, Grandpa Lolo is a veteran…which doesn’t exclude him from being either vegetarian OR a veterinarian, but it does mean he did, indeed, spend his entire adult life keeping our country safe, which is something very good to learn about and should never be taken for granted.

Which is why, as a country, we celebrate this day every year….to thank those who have dedicated part of their lives to assure our freedom.  It isn’t just a job, it’s a way of life, 365 days a year, 24 hours a day.

“A veteran is someone who, at one point in their life wrote a blank check made payable to “The United States of America,” for an amount up to and including their life.”

Let us never take for granted those who have done this freely and kudos to the teachers out there who are still teaching our children about those who serve our country.

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A Summer Interlude in November

Posted by pausesandclicks on 11/07/2015
Posted in: Uncategorized. Tagged: cancun, excellence playa mujeres, girlfriend getaway, mexico, sun and sand, weekly photo challenge: treat. 2 Comments

As autumn eases into winter and the crunch of leaves is underfoot, it’s a treat to spend time with good friends in a beautiful setting, with sand between our toes.

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Made With Care

Posted by pausesandclicks on 10/30/2015
Posted in: Uncategorized. Tagged: family meal, food, meal preparation, weekly photo challenge: care. 1 Comment

One of life’s pleasures is sharing a meal with people we love.

Much care goes into the selection of the menu, the preparation of the food, and the setting of the table because a few hours spent with family and friends, gathered around a table, is what precious memories are made of.

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This past week we shared this meal with our son, our daughter-in-law, and her parents, who were visiting from Indiana.  Having them around our table was priceless.

And of course, they all went home with Instagrams!

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Finding the Extra in the Ordinary

Posted by pausesandclicks on 10/22/2015
Posted in: Why I Make Pictures. Tagged: A Pause A Click A Frozen Moment, Instagrams, julannek, mesh, PausesandClicks, photography, weekly photo challenge: (Extra)ordinary. 2 Comments

When I wrote this post back in 2012 I had posted just under 400 Instagrams, one day at a time.  Should you go back and read it, you’ll learn how I started on this journey and why.   Yesterday I posted my 1725th image.

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When your eyes are always looking for the “image of the day” they see many amazing things and those posts are easy.  The challenge, and what I love most about this quest, are the days during which I have to look for the extra in the ordinary….not walking past what most people would dismiss, but taking the time to find the extra where nothing extra is obvious.

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These are some of my favorites.  My hope, as you scroll through them, is that they will inspire you to see the world around you in a different way.

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To follow me on Instagram click here.  I also print my Instagrams and give them to people I meet in my travels and along the road of my life, usually resulting in pictures of the people I encounter with the Instagrams they take with them. Those pictures and some of the stories end up here.

To discover what other WordPress bloggers find to be (Extra)ordinary follow this link.

And don’t forget to look for the extra in your ordinary.

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